I'm thinking about buying a 200+ GB SSD for my laptop, and this post summarizes my research. Note that it is current as of November 22, 2011 and will likely be irrelevant by 2012.
tl;dr The Corsair Force GT seems to be the fastest choice with Crucial m4 coming in a fairly close second. Data on failure rates for these drives/controllers has been hard to find, though, and all signs point to Intel drives being the most reliable (but also most expensive and slowest).
TechReport's SSD performance review which @samstokes sent me, which seems to find the two aforementioned drives to have the best performance, with the Corsair Force Series 3 making a decent showing as well. It also suggests that the Intel 500 series is a bit slower and significantly more expensive than the competition.
Tom's Hardware investigation on SSD reliability suggests that Intel's SSDs are much more reliable (specifically their X25-M series; a sentiment I've read in other places too), but it doesn't compare their failure rates to other manufacturers because "those are the drives that big businesses currently trust the most".
Friends on Twitter and Facebook generally recommended the m4.
It's also worth noting that I've read quite a few posts similar to The Hot/Crazy Solid State Drive Scale which suggest that failures can be fairly common. These posts have mostly been more than six months old, though, so I'm hoping that most of these problems have been sorted out in newer drives (it seems that there are often issues which can be fixed by a software update).
The net result is that I'm probably going to get a Force GT or m4, which ever I can find for a reasonable price from a local retailer with a good return policy.
Disclaimer: what you see is what you get. I've done enough research to convince myself that an SSD isn't a terrible idea, but that's definitely far from enough research to objectively show that an SSD isn't a terrible idea. Also, I've included links to Amazon for two reasons: 1) because prices change so often that quoting them here wouldn't be that useful, and 2) I've just setup a fancy affiliate account, so I stand a small chance of making a small amount of money from them.